Related to my recent post about Marriage and Divorcement, I found this article on internet about Ayu Utami's opinion on Faith and Sin. Recently I've been learning a lot about love, life, nature and God, and I will say I agree with her.

I remember I've post a blog about her, few years before she got married. I just found out today that I was surfing the internet that she was finally married her lover Erik Prasetya. I was very amazed by her opinion of love, marriage and sex even I haven't read any of her books. I am amazed because she vocalized the principle I was trying to make people around me to accept as one of the options.

What made it different about now and then is that now I agree with her view on Catholic, also. It has and always been our base, no matter what we believe in now. She really has a free mind and she is not afraid of voicing it. I wish I could be that vocal, but I am not her--we have different approaches and ways on delivering a message. I am just agree for what she said mostly, but about God, I have a slightly different opinion.

Anyway, I learned something new today. It's about being right or wrong. I think it's very close with sin. My lover taught me a lot of things about love and life, and the one I want to share here is that 'being right or wrong is human. For God, it's about choices with different consequences'. Therefore we should never judge anything in this world, for it is God's part.

By the way I really am happy with Ayu's marriage. It really brings a different perspective about her, in a refreshing way. At least her journey 'ends' up happily. Like her, I'm not anti marriage. I'm just being very careful of committing myself to it. I know I will be happy like she is, because I am following my heart, too. God bless!