I think I have problems with trusting new people. The last days of year 2006, I’ve given my trust to 2 of my new friends but they ended up disappointed me.
The first one was a girl whom I believed could be one of my best friends. But after 2 months of recognition, she disappointed and humiliated me. I still care for her, about her future and life, but I don’t really wanna know what she’s up to, her latest job or whatsoever. I’ve offered my time but she rejected it by saying she has no time for me bcuz her boyfriend is 24/7 being beside her. It’s unbelievable and so disappointing. I still reckon her as my friend, but no longer on my top list.
The second new friend was a boy. He’s 2 years younger than me and offered a job. I took it but it turned out that that caused a new problem. I was wrong, I took the job bcuz it was interesting and could add some taste in my resume. It was a clothing store with concept of a candy shop. But I took it with my final projects have to be done. So I was fetched by deadlines and the projects came up disappointing too.
It was not due to the projects. But the boy was so green at this field. He didn’t give me the part as our first agreement but he changed it as he liked it. It was disappointing that in the end he gave up talking with me and ‘gave’ me to his partner. And he gave me lower than half of the first agreement but still arguing I put too high price. Hey if you don’t want to give me the number I asked then DON’T make any agreement at all. He lowered my honor anytime we meet. This is so unprofessional.
This was a lesson for me. But the boy seemed so defending I couldn’t make any contact with him again since the money matter. This is a very sensitive problem—the money and friendship. So guys, I gotta advice you to ALWAYS make a written agreement on any business you do, even it was with your own family or even siblings. It’s a crucial thing that could help you later. And, never trust a new friend so fast, they could manipulate you… even she’s so kind or he looked so true.
Well, we took our lessons and move on. New year 2007, we hope for better living, better lessons and better way to live.
The first one was a girl whom I believed could be one of my best friends. But after 2 months of recognition, she disappointed and humiliated me. I still care for her, about her future and life, but I don’t really wanna know what she’s up to, her latest job or whatsoever. I’ve offered my time but she rejected it by saying she has no time for me bcuz her boyfriend is 24/7 being beside her. It’s unbelievable and so disappointing. I still reckon her as my friend, but no longer on my top list.
The second new friend was a boy. He’s 2 years younger than me and offered a job. I took it but it turned out that that caused a new problem. I was wrong, I took the job bcuz it was interesting and could add some taste in my resume. It was a clothing store with concept of a candy shop. But I took it with my final projects have to be done. So I was fetched by deadlines and the projects came up disappointing too.
It was not due to the projects. But the boy was so green at this field. He didn’t give me the part as our first agreement but he changed it as he liked it. It was disappointing that in the end he gave up talking with me and ‘gave’ me to his partner. And he gave me lower than half of the first agreement but still arguing I put too high price. Hey if you don’t want to give me the number I asked then DON’T make any agreement at all. He lowered my honor anytime we meet. This is so unprofessional.
This was a lesson for me. But the boy seemed so defending I couldn’t make any contact with him again since the money matter. This is a very sensitive problem—the money and friendship. So guys, I gotta advice you to ALWAYS make a written agreement on any business you do, even it was with your own family or even siblings. It’s a crucial thing that could help you later. And, never trust a new friend so fast, they could manipulate you… even she’s so kind or he looked so true.
Well, we took our lessons and move on. New year 2007, we hope for better living, better lessons and better way to live.
