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I had never realized that I am an over-possessive person until a new friend, Adit, said it to my face two months ago. Since my first relationship with boys 13 years ago, I had read so many relationship tips articles in Mom's women magazines and I knew that guys don't like over-possessive girls. That's why I tried my best not to become one. Apparently, I was wrong.
Apparently, I still have that sense of too-much on owning something mostly over the people I care about--not only my boyfriend, but also my best friends. I just realized now that I had been pretty much a little too possessive. Actually sometimes it's good, but sometimes it's not really that good. Especially when I try to control their lives.
I think it's because I care too much. Although sometimes I seem to not caring at all. But I do. And sometimes, it's over the limit. Now I learn to accept things the way they are and to give more space to them to expand and thrive in their own lives, with their own way. Because we all are unique and we have different ways of our own. I still need to learn more in life..
