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I spent half my day today talking with my 19 years old cousin who asked me the other day stuff about life and spirituality. We discussed stuff, and I gave him some clues about life. I think it's kind of necessary to give out some advices here, to be shared and spread, the 10 best advices I've been holding on to in my life. Some I quoted, some I discovered myself. I hope these can help!

1. Things change. People change. It's one of the law in life and there's nothing we can do about it. The change is constant, therefore we must always learn to adapt. And adapt. And adapt again. We must be flexible and open minded.
2. The past is dead. When things change, you must know that that reality is gone and going to be replaced by a new one. It's always sad/shocking at first, but once we realize that we cannot relive the dead, we have no other option than to move on.
3. Listen to your heart. I know it sounds much easier than done, but the first thing pops into your mind usually comes from your subconscious mind/heart. It's the intuitive thing before any logic comes into mind. Needs a lot of practice to listen, but once you can it's gonna ease your way in life because heart will lead you the way.
4. Know your purpose. People say the purpose of life is to serve God. The others say to serve the others. Anything you find it clicks with your heart, go for it. Try find your purpose and be firm about it, and you'll be doing okay.
5. Acknowledge that HAPPINESS is a way of life, not a purpose. If your life goal is to be happy then you'll waste it finding something that can never be found until you switch your mind to be happy while living your life.
6. Connect to the nature. The Hindus believe that nature is God and God is in nature. Most peaceful people live in countryside while urban people tend to be depressed. I experienced this myself, that those lots of hours spent outside enjoying the scenery could be a kind of therapy and process on 'finding' the answers I'd been looking for. Go on vacation for a break. It'll always do you good.
7. Travel. Go somewhere new. Learn something new. Meet someone new. Anything new can always help--to handle boredom or to give new perspective on life. With more and more knowledge we receive, we are pushing our limits to its very edge. And it broadens our minds!
8. The people you know, you'll know for life. Even tho you know them for only a brief moment now, who knows if one day they'd become your boss/business partner/best friend--or spouse? So always do and give the best to people, as you want to be known/remembered.
9. In finding a spouse, look for one who has the opposite character from you but has the same taste/hobby/interest with you, not the otherwise. Opposite characters can help a lot to fill your weaknesses and vice versa, while same interest will help to keep/rebuild the passion alive.
10. Set some targets, be as tangible as possible, but NEVER target the age to be married. Money can be earned, success can be gained, but love is not a trophy. Love will come naturally, so never put target on when to be married. Worst marriages (that I know from people around me) are the ones that is done with time limit or the urge to have babies before 30. Come on. We are human beings, not robots!

Please feel free to share these if you find them helpful. Perhaps I'll compile another bundle of advices next time. And, by the way, have a happy brand new year ahead, folks!!

by Ane Brun


She's got everything she needs, she's an artist, she don't look back
She's got everything she needs, she's an artist, she don't look back
She can take the dark out of the nighttime and paint the daytime black

You will start out standing, proud to steal her anything she sees
You will start out standing, proud to steal her anything she sees
But you will wind up peeking through her keyhole, down upon your knees

She never stumbles, she's got no place to fall
No, she never stumbles, she's got no place to fall
She's nobody's child, the law can't touch her at all

She wears an Egyptian ring that sparkles before she speaks
She wears an Egyptian ring that sparkles before she speaks
She's a hypnotist collector, you are a walking antique

Bow down to her on Sunday, salute her when her birthday comes
Bow down to her on Sunday, salute her when her birthday comes
For Halloween, give her a trumpet and for Christmas, buy her a drum


I'm liking this song because my boyfriend 'gave' this to me and I'd like to be this girl for him. <3>

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Today another plane is missing this year, just 4 days before the closing of 2014. Air Asia's Airbus A320-216 PK-AXC plane with flight number #QZ-8501 was reported missing contact within their first hour of flight from Surabaya to Singapore this morning at 7:24 a.m. WIB (but the radar from flightradar24 said it went totally blank few more minutes after that).

The airplane carried 2 pilots, 4 flight attendants, an engineer, 138 adult passengers, 16 children and a toddler. That's 162 people in total. Like the lost plane of Malaysia Airlines' MH-370 before, the plane went missing above the sea and this means the third major airplane accident happened in this year, all three were Malaysian airlines.

QZ-8501 had requested a permission to go from 32,000 to 38,000 feet above sea level to avoid bad weather/some thick clouds but declined by Air Traffic Control (ATC) because there was another airplane at that height. It shifted to the left instead, with permission, just a moment before it was gone.


There are absolutely weird things going on here, especially if we study this with logic. I'll break down some for you here:

1. There were no signal of distress pilot(s) in their last contact. This means, there shouldn't be any major trouble happened despite the bad weather. Planes go through bad weather all the time, so it should be a 'normal' bad weather that the pilot asked only to go higher or shift the plane in a normal voice.
2. There were high air traffic around the spot where QZ-8501 was gone. If there was an explosion or the plane fell, there must be at least 3 other airplanes heading toward QZ-8501 to witness the accident.
3. If you take a closer look, there were 4 planes around QZ-8501 (pay attention from minute 1:10 to 1:38) that were hovering for 3-5 seconds before it went blank from the radar--a moment before QZ-8501 lost contact--but only 2 of them went back on track again after QZ-8501 was gone (minute 1:44). One of which had a kind of different path than its original one with bigger yellow plane signal, before the signals were lost, like it was U-turning during the signal lost. This might be the side effect from the "kidnapping" illusion or the four planes could take part in the scenario also (if the case was like MH-370). I prefer the first possibility, tho.
4. If the plane was gone before the line went into dash*, then the accident happened between southwest of Kalimantan and north of Java island (the Java sea, not to mention the Thousand Islands). There should be witnesses from the coasts around or from the fishermen if there was a plane fell. Or at least within side views from 2 airplanes around.
5. If the plane was gone exactly when the plane signal went static red and gone, then it happened around Natuna Sea, north of Belitung island. Still, there should be at least one witness from any of the coasts. And the witness in this spot should be more than the other spot due to more coasts around and 3 airplanes with frontal view toward QZ-8501..
6. Search for an airplane crash shouldn't take more than a day, especially in the neritic zone (shallow part of the ocean above the drop-off of continental shelf, approx. 200m in depth) where sunlight shines through to the bottom of the sea and is NOT an ocean. The wreckage should be found in no time.
7. And even if the plane crashed on the land/island (which is unlikely, due to the data we have now), the search would be even quicker. 
8. Looking back at MH-370's case, many psychics from various countries brought up one similar theory: the airplane was safe in other dimension/world. I'll take this theory--which apparently the only theory that fit all of the data.

I would love to jump into conclusion that this plane, like MH-370, was 'abducted' and transported to another dimension--or in our words: to enter the invisible portal to Area 36 (read about it more at www.turanggaseta.com). It is indeed hard to believe, but if all the facts don't lead you to any plausible theory, then why not try the insane ones?

In my discussion group, many asked why should 'they' abduct airplanes, or why should it be all Malaysian airlines or whether the passengers and crews could go back to our world/dimension. I don't really know the exact reason but I'd say 'they' want the world to pay attention (admit this: airplane accidents brought more attention than bus or train accidents, right?) and to notice that there are the 'other dimension' with their advanced technology that have been living around and beside us all along, that could make (impossible) things happen.

In my opinion, more planes are going to disappear until people would admit that the 'other dimension' of Area 36 does exist. Until people would admit that there are some greater power/knowledge/civilizations hidden around us. I know this sounds insane or maybe a little too sci-fi. But if you are reasonable--to quote Ricky Gervais--shouldn't these data change your perspective now?


P.S. (update) After days of search and some findings on bodies and wreckage--to think about it in other perspective--my best guess is the plane was about to crash with some UFO/a Nuswantaran flying vehicle that camouflaged in thick clouds that it perhaps: a) crash with the vehicle, b) shot by a thunder in order to avoid the crash or c) had the same case with Sukhoi jet on May 2012. What do you think??


*) the plane with dashed line on their path were not always appears on flightradar24 during the flight. In this video, the person created the video already clicked the plane (AirAsia QZ8501) before dashed line, so the plane appears all the time until he/she clicked another plane--copied comment from youtube. 

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Do you believe in reincarnation?
Is it related to your belief?
Does your religion against the idea?
What if the science can proof the otherwise?

But most importantly, what if today's researches could finally relate science with beliefs/spirituality? This movie is talking about a random test done by scientists couple that lead them to a huge discovery of the relation between science (which are based on facts/data) and spirituality (which relates to human's soul, feelings and subconscious mind).

I myself do believe in reincarnation, now that I have seen the proofs for the past 10 years. I remember I used to argue with a friend about this and I insisted that there aren't such thing as reincarnation. But from Paulo Coelho's books and testimonials or stories from around me, I slowly started to believe in the idea, especially when a man told me who I was in my last incarnation.


Now if something like this occurs in your life, whether you're a scientist or a religious person, would you change your belief? Would it affect your perspective on seeing this life? Would it trigger more the curiosity in you about the mystery of life? Or would it be just another movie/discovery/news that goes by and forgotten in your already busy life?

And if there are proofs/facts/data that connects the never-ending debates between science and religion, shouldn't it be a great thing to discover? That we could finally find the answer about life mystery? I have found recently the data that is indeed shocking but so true that it works on researches and experiments, but really changed my belief on almost everything in life.

But as Ricky Gervais had said: "Beliefs don't change facts. Facts, if you're reasonable, should change your beliefs." No, I never lead anyone into atheism like Gervais did. I simply want people to see the greater truth, the one hidden behind religions--but not that God isn't there--the one that had been there all along, written/drawn/encrypted on manuscript or other ancient artifacts, the proofs that had been there way before religions existed. Why not grounding our beliefs from the origins--the original one?

I'm not going to discuss about that now, but I put it in my novel, Gerbang Nuswantara, all of the facts that could trigger your curiosity to find out more about Indonesian original history/culture/data. For me, this movie is another great mind-opener--just like Lucy--on the greatest knowledge we're not told. Yet. But it really is a mind-opener.

I like almost all of the quotes from this movie, especially the one that said "eyes are the window to the soul"--that specific quote we're all already familiar about--that is literally proven in the movie. Because I experienced it too when I met my current boyfriend. It was at our very first meeting that we knew we've known each other since forever. And that we are each other's true love & soul mate, and that we could see it in each other's eyes.

Maybe that's why I love this movie so much. Because it's mind-opener. It gives proofs. And it relates to my own personal experience. Now I am curious to have my eyes scanned and see who I was in my past life(s)--in a scientific way. Not that the past mattered, but I always believe that the past holds the key to our future (and the knowledge).


Anyway. Some fun facts about the movie (taken from IMDb):

1. For a brief moment in the opening credits only the letters I and O are shown in the movie title. This gives "IOII". In binary the number 1011 translates as eleven which is an important number throughout the film.
2. In the ending Salomina completed a test and scored 44%. The test involved 25 questions from A-Y. 44% of 25 is 11. In the beginning of the film, 11 is the number that brought Ian and Sofi together. This is a well thought out scene which shows the directors use of fore-shadowing.  
3. Salomina's score of 44% is 11% above the average score of 33% which is yet another occurrence of "11" in the story. 

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Found this on Facebook, I am very grateful because I've been working for free for so long, especially to the closest people around me.. until it hit me about six months ago that my friends insisted me to make her a business card for her piano course (that I declined, after much difficulties because she thought she has the privilege of being my friend that she should get it free from me).

And this chart here is a perfect chart to eliminate the unnecessary projects to my work piles. Thank you, Jessica Hische who made this. It really is helpful for us designers!

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When you hear the word "volcano" you probably automatically picture something like the sight of red and orange magma coming out of the earth and burning everything in its path..


Volcanoes are formed where the Earth's tectonic plates shift, allowing subterranean magma chambers to erupt, or in locations where the Earth's mantle is anomalously hotter, pushing the magma up to the surface.


Of all volcanoes in the world, the Ijen Volcano complex is the most rare and unique as the lava it produces is blue.


Located in East Java, Indonesia, Ijen's unique blue lava comes from the very high concentration of sulfur in the magma.


The locals have been mining the sulfur for many years now, at a very low pay and high risk to themselves.


Still, the incredible site is one to behold, and since National Geographic mentioned the phenomenon a short while back, tourism to the spot has increased.


When photographer Olivier Grunewald chose to visit the mountain and photograph it, he had to wear a gas mask due to to the high concentration of sulfur in the air.


Both of him and his team slept by the acid lake at the top of the volcano with their masks.


But thanks to them, we get to view such amazing images.

There are more than just a reason why I love this movie "If I Stay", a movie based on a novel by Gayle Forman, starred beautifully by Chloë Grace Moretz and Jamie Blackley. I found it while browsing and decided to watch it tonight out of boredom. Apparently I couldn't stop the tears from falling while watching it, but I don't regret--it was really worth it!

I love this movie because:

1. The casts are all beautiful and simply fit into the characters. I'm loving the Halls family already.
2. The way the movie is packaged from the beginning to end; so light yet so deep and meaningful.
3. The so many lessons we can get during watching--not to mention if we read the book.
4. Adam "was already someone" which kinda hit me with my own reality...
5. And the problems Mia and Adam were facing are simply similar to my own that I can copy almost all of the quotes and apply it in my own life.

So yes, I love this movie mostly because of its similarity to my own love problems (tho I am not in the dying situation) but now that I had to choose between moving on (and running out of fight) and facing the reality instead, then I chose the latter. I chose to live for love. And I am staying for my boyfriend.

"Sometimes you make choices in life and sometimes choices make you." -Gayle Forman.

While I knew only one, apparently there are more than five ways to knot a tie. 


It seems like such a fine thing on a man. It completes their formal-wear in a way that leaves no doubt he is a sharp dresser, especially if you get a little clever with your tie tying, and sport some a really interesting know that's hard to do. So, from basic to advanced, here are some easy visual instructions on how to tie some of the more popular as well some of the rarer - tie knots.

Here are the ways: 

by courtesy of Oom A.E. Pryana.

I have no idea on how much time did it take to make this movie, but it's damn awesome!
This is the music that Nigel Stanford composed for Tom Lowe's movie TimeScapes. I love watching stars, staring at the view of nature and be adventurous (especially at the river between canyons). This movie is bringing me some of that, and I hope you like this as much as I did. Enjoy!

I'm not a physicist nor do I plan to become. But I bet this following video will just trigger your curiosity toward physics, once you watch this awesome music-science video by Nigel Stanford here:



“In 1999 I watched a documentary on Synesthesia — a disorder that effects the audio and visual functions of the brain. People with the disorder hear a sound when they see bright colours, or see a color when they hear various sounds. I don’t have it (I don’t think), but I have always felt that bass frequencies are red, and treble frequencies are white,” Stanford wrote.

“This got me thinking that it would be cool to make a music video where every time a sound plays, you see a corresponding visual element. Many years later, I saw some videos about Cymatics — the science of visualising audio frequencies — and the idea for the video was born.” (CNET)
This, will surely direct people's minds to the idea of free energy by Tesla, or find out more of it here.

I can't write more about this due to my lack of knowledge in science and physics, but this video is surely brings us a message, that there are energies working around us, that is related to aura, law of attraction and everything else--you name it. I'm just saying that our universe is a lot richer than what we know. And I am just as curious to find out more about it!

All for Rp 50,000!

I found these books on sale last week and got them all for only IDR50,000. It was a great deal for me, who haven't shop for books for quite some time. I've been reading most of the tales, both the Arabian Night's (Kisah-Kisah dari Negeri 1001 Malam) and the Indonesian & World's Classic Tales (50 Cerita Klasik) and I think some tales are similar to each other.

One thing that I notice, tho, most of the tales tell us that first-born child or earlier-born children (almost) always have bad/worse attitude than the last child. It had always been like that, even in the Bible. There is only one tale I found that the "winner" of the game is the middle child, only to find in the next tale that his youngest brother gets a bigger prize after.

Then the questions came to me:
Is it natural that oldest kids are tend to be rude, cruel, lazy, spoiled, jealous children?
And why is it never happen to the youngest one?
Why is the kind-hearts, humbleness and nobility always go to the last child?

If the Bible--or these tales--were told as metaphors, then I'd take it that the best quality is usually found in the ones who get a lower place or the suffering/downtrodden people. Perhaps it is said to obviate people from getting arrogant. Because, honestly, I am the first child and I feel that I am far from being a rude, cruel, lazy, spoiled, jealous, or whatever-it-is-that-is-worse-than-the-last-sibling's-attitude.

I may not be perfect but I won't agree if all first kids are that bad. But I also admit that my youngest sister gets easier path of life than it is/was for both me and my brother. Perhaps it's in their luck. Maybe there is a special privileges of being the last child. But as a first-born, I'd say I have my own privileges, too! ;)

Herdi was giving speech

I'm gonna share the event I went to last Friday, which I just knew exist a few days before. I wasn't planning to go to Jakarta that day but I had to interview a resource for an upcoming project, so I went instead. The venue took place in Jl. Tirtayasa and I finished at 5 p.m. Such a perfect timing on Friday night in Jakarta!

Herdi and me

After 10 minutes trapped in hopeless traffic jam, I turned my wheels and headed to Plaza Mandiri SCBD for PechaKucha Night Jakarta. My ex-colleague Herdiana Surachman of Deluxshionist was giving a speech for the community, and the night's topic was Fashion Nation. When I got there at 6 pm, the room was barely filled so I got time to chit-chat with Herdi and catching up stuff we'd lost in 2 years.

This is Ucita Pohan, one of the best speakers that night

PechaKucha is a community started in Tokyo, Japan, in 2003 by Caucasian architects for creative people to gather and share ideas. PechaKucha Night is the monthly event for 20x20 presentation. It means each of the speakers has to speak within the slideshow of 20 images, each shown in 20 seconds. I must say, this is a very creative way to inspire and be inspired.

Herdi, me and Atri

So I stayed for the night while waiting for the traffic jam to dissolve. I sat next to Herdi and perhaps the only not-fashionista person to sit at that row of speakers. Just before we left, we met Atri, our other ex-colleague, and had another catching up chit-chat. It was a very tiring day for me, yet inspiring. I think I'll go to the next PechaKucha Night!

Our booth at D6

For the first time since it was built, De Latinos housing complex in BSD City, Tangerang Selatan, held a local fair, participated by almost 100 booths, sponsors and talent performances. Me and my aunts joined the crowd by renting a booth for selling crafts, cloths, cookies, etc. I spent for about a week to prepare my forgotten handcrafting goods I brought from Bali.

Indonesian batik & weave motifs for lanterns and cushion cases

I don't really have much to say about the event, except that it was held in 2 days (13-14 Dec 2014) and that I got sunburn because of roaming and biking around by the sun. But overall, I got few friends coming and it feels nice to be visited by those who live far away from De Latinos. They were Tommy and his partner, Joseph and his friend and DJ Laxx who helped us promoting to passersby.

my aunts, mom and me

I sold all of my batik fabric I bought in Bali and almost 10 of my lanterns, which is half of the stock. By the end of the fair they lighted beautiful fireworks for about 5 minutes and amazed us all--no matter how often you have seen fireworks in your life. We all came home tired, sleepy, but happy because it was a success. Thank you for all friends who came and shopped at Pélopé!

Tomorrow, my handcrafting brand Pélopé Shop will open a booth at De Latinos Fair, at BSD City. The event will be held from 9 am till midnight for two full days this weekend. If you're happen to be around the area, come by and experience some fun with us! I'll meet you all there!